How do you separate Successful people from everyone else?
-“Let’s design your own success scale”
Let me put forth this question to everyone of you….! How do you measure a success of a person?… Is it by being rich? Is it by leading a fancy lifestyle? Definitely not,,,! These are some of the perceptions that seeded up in our mind while we are growing up. Lets analyze how successful people looks like!
If you measure your success in others scale of success, it’s not a real success..! Taking Dhirubhai Ambani’s business to the next level is the success of Mukesh Ambani. To feed his family thrice in a day is the success of road-side vendor. Likewise everyone has a own terms of success.
Let me share my view towards the success ,,,,!
Consistency- Why do we always fail for being Consistent? Because we are always in a hurry to taste the fruit without even planting it. Successful people believes themselves after entering in the field while the normal ones doubt themselves before even entering in the field.
“A Butterfly flaps its wings in the Amazonian jungle, and subsequently a storm ravages half of Europe”- This is a tagline of the book “ The Butterfly Effect” by Andy Andrews. Normal ones failed to believe that the Universe is watching every single action of them. Success will knock the door for the ones who did the things consistently no matter whatever the situation is.
Dedication- When you are doing a thing wholeheartedly, it will definitely showers you with success. Most of us are doing our work without even giving our heart and soul there, that’s why it turns out to be a hectic complex one. Normal people gets easily bored. On the other hand, successful people will make even their boring work into creative ones and make them involve themselves without complaining the destiny.
At times it feels like we are rejected, not heard, not valued but remember overthinking leads you to a normal life. May be the magnet attracts the opposite poles, but in life success attracts only when you are positively filled. That’s why normal people are always repelled from the success.
Punctuality- When the normal people are investing in money, successful people are investing in time. Normal people always failed to balance between Time, Money, and Energy. On the other hand, successful ones balance all the three. These three things always plays a vital role in the game of victory. Remember that one of the thing will always be in a out of station when you have rest of the two things in your hand. If you find the way to utilize all three, you are in the path of success.
Successful ones value both money and time while the normal ones only value money. Even top millionaire could not able to buy their time with their pennies. How we are spending the pre- credited time in our clock of life will separate us from normal ones.
Self Discipline- Sometimes its okay to say “NO” when its not your cup of coffee. Successful ones influence others while the normal ones influenced by others. If you look at the stories of successful people they always rude to themselves to avoid others being rude to them. Normal people place themselves far away from disciplines and compromise themselves that success comes only for those who is lucky and tag themselves as unlucky. Always remember that there is no rose without thorns.
Successful ones define their own ethics while the normal ones fail to do so. Most of us think that being disciplined to oneself is not a cool thing. Even normal ones can turned out to be a successful ones when they realize that being committed to themselves is a super cool thing.
Once you satisfied your family needs, and ready to serve for the society then comes the real success. Its not like you should always handle your hurdles strictly to taste the honey. When you started enjoying the flow of every minute process of your life, everything will be fallen in your plate. That’s where successful ones came into limelight while the normal ones still in the dark. Its boring when you are normal, think out of the box to unveil the mystery of life and let the people name it as success.